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Showing posts with label South. Show all posts
Being so close to Durham - about a 30 minute drive - Zack and I took a small day trip and headed to Duke University! I didn't really know what to expect...I know they are usually good in basketball?? but that's about it. We showed up and wow! The. Campus. Is. Beautiful. Trees were everywhere, the buildings were made from gorgeous stone work - almost medieval but with a more classic beauty - and Duke Chapel was in the center of it all. Before we hit the heart of the campus grounds, we saw a garden - Sarah P. Duke Gardens -  which looked nice and we quickly realized how massive it was! It has different sections - a moss garden, Japanese garden, ponds, amphitheater.. it just kept going. Turns out it's around 55 acres with what felt like a million paths to take. On a day like today, it was the perfect time to visit with great weather and so many trees blossoming...so so pretty.
The gardens eventually emptied us into the rest of campus. The grounds were  pretty with grassy lawns and magnolias and oaks lining the sidewalks. Fun fact for the day - the library has spin bikes with a table top so students can workout in the library while studying countless hours! Sounds like a great idea right?? Too bad no one was using them.. Maybe getting all sweating and panting really hard in a quiet library isn't the most appealing thing for a student hah.
We headed to the Chapel after...but it took us forever to get there. I think we found ourselves at the back of the library?? maybe?? but there was not clear path at first to the chapel. We could see the bell tower (it was so close) but we kept finding dead end after dead end ha..clearly we needed a map, but hey, we got a see more of the pretty campus! Eventually we found it! The inside was amazing. The stained glass windows covered the walls and they were...how do I put it.. busy? The colors were so vibrant and there was a lot going on but it looked really cool.
Commentary by Z: Something I find strange but also appreciate is that Catholic chapels just have their front doors open and let people wander in all the time and take pictures. I get that the idea is to always be welcoming, which is cool, but it's gotta be annoying for people that want some quiet prayer time to have to deal with tourists!
If you head east and maybe a little north from Durham, Falls Lake is a must see! Being that it's winter, we did't have to pay an entrance fee..but the fees during summer are pretty reasonable something like $6 a car. It was a little windy, but we had the place _almost_ to ourselves! There's something so amazing about a lake being surrounded by woods - everything seems more peaceful and inviting. We have a kayak (not canoe! I always call it a canoe for who knows what reason) that we did not bring on this trip but now I am kicking myself that we didn't - the price we pay for our smaller car with waaaay better gas mileage! From our vantage point we only saw a fraction of the lake and our kayak would have given us a chance to see more. I definitely want to come back!!
Commentary by Z: Driving 4477 miles (our total so far) in the Wrangler with a kayak on top has 0 appeal to me.
Final thoughts about Raleigh? We love the area! They have great parks and outdoor trails for all ages which is pretty awesome. Growing up in California and Colorado, we both love the outdoors and this city definitely has the outdoorsy vibe! They have tons of food options in the heart of the city and even in the suburbs which makes it convenient and exciting to try new places and not our everyday chains (no fear though, they have chains too!). We wish we could have taken more time to go to the nature preserves and other hiking trails near Cary but once again we never seem to have enough time! I think we could both see ourselves living here one day and really loving it, but for now we will just have the memory and joy that Raleigh gave us!

Zack and I love the mountains - hiking, camping, anything that brings us closer to nature. Raleigh doesn't have mountains but what Raleigh does have is plenty of woods and places to walk and hike..or nature walk (not a lot of dramatic elevation change compared to Utah ha). Today we explored Yates Mill - one of the oldest buildings in the area now turned into a historical site and state park. The old mill was once used for grinding corn, wheat, and lumber which we learned all about in the visitor center! The grounds are gorgeous with trails that not only took us to the mill but then allowed us to walk around the lake.

Side note - While we were taking a nice walk I remembered that I get a little jumpy....what I mean is that I heard something rustle in the bushes and jumped a little. Guess I need to walk in nature more because that shouldn't have phased me... :)
Commentary by Z: Pretty sure she only confessed that just so I couldn't reveal it myself and do smug commentary about it. So instead of that, I'll just say that I'm torn between wishing I could have had a lifestyle like they must have had on the mill - working hard and building things and swimming in the pond on the weekends - and being happy that I can work on a computer inside my air conditioned house and watch Netflix with my wife at night.
Zack is making fun of me...very funny ha
After the mill, we headed over to Pullen Park which is right outside of downtown. There's a cute little train that families can ride, a pond with a boat dock, paddle boats, a playground, and a lot of grassy space! It would be the perfect place to for an afternoon with family or friends! We really loved it and bonus - it was free (unless you wanted to ride the train)!
Before the sun set, we headed to the Temple of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in Apex. We walked the grounds and enjoyed the peace and quiet for a bit but eventually got hungry..so naturally we headed to dinner! Tonight, we chose a place called Los Tres - Mexican food! I got steak tacos and Zack got steak nachos! I love Mexican food because they usually bring out chips and salsa to snack on...I always have a hard time not eating all of them and getting full before my meal shows up.
Commentary by Z: Why is it that everyone serves Carne Asada Nachos instead of Carne Asada fries? I swear they're 10x harder to find outside of California.
Tomorrow is our last full day in Raleigh before we move on to Virginia! We'll probably go up and see Duke University and get our last taste of the city. See you tomorrow!
The next stop on our trip? Raleigh, North Carolina...but more specifically the city of Apex. Apex is a significant stop in our journey. We partially started this trip to see what the country has to offer but to also consider where we might want to live one day. Long story short, a year and a half ago we found the city of Apex and have since romanticized the idea of living there - partially because North Carolina is a beautiful state and partially because the grass is greener on the other side kind of thing. So of course when we mapped out our drive, Apex was on the list and to commemorate the monumental moment of getting here, it also marks the halfway point in our road trip (that was a happy accident - yes I just used Bob Ross's words. no shame).
We took some time going through different neighborhoods to get a feel for the city. Apex seemed a lot smaller than expected. Population-wise it's bigger than the city we live in now, but because of all the trees, it's hard to see where the city really is. Everything is hidden which I'm not used to.

As we drove we noticed brand new neighborhoods with model homes so we stopped and walked through them. Ahhh...model homes are so tricky. They show you the possibilities...every upgrade. Every new feature a home can offer, but it always costs you. We fell in love with the home and they always make you walk through it first before they tell you the price - like I said, tricky. Ya... totally out of our price range, but hey, it was still fun to walk through it and get ideas for our own home.
Commentary by Z: Probably a good thing they balance the fun things with non fun things at open houses. Fun thing: walking through an expensive house with all the upgrades and marveling at all the space and cool things. Not fun thing: Salesmen trying to sell you that house.
Dinner was at the Mellow Mushroom. We typically try to stay away from chains, but we kept seeing this one everywhere in the south and saw good reviews so we decided to check it out. It's a pizza place - sit down - and not too expensive. Overall we really liked the pizza! If you're only passing through the south it's probably not worth spending one of your meals on, but if you're here for awhile then you should go for it. Day 2 in Raleigh and we decided to go downtown once Zack was finished with work. We left during rush hour and it didn't even feel like rush hour! There was definitely traffic but nothing that made me want to flip out - score! We ate at Gravy, a little Italian restaurant right by the State Capitol. Zack got the Lasagna - classic - and I got Campanelle. Both were super yummy! 10/10 would recommend to a friend.
Commentary by Z: Anytime we can avoid traffic is +1 for me. Growing up near San Diego I've come to really appreciate places where the freeway system doesn't practically shut down during rush hour.
Since we are in the capitol city of North Carolina, we naturally had to visit the State Capitol building. Turns out it was about a block away from where we had dinner so that was convenient, even though we walked right past it and didn't even notice it! The building wasn't very big but the grounds were really pretty with different statues and monuments to remember war (WWWI,WWWI, Korean War, etc) and important figures (good ole George Washington). It's been really fun to see all the different state capitol buildings, for some reason we both assumed that all capitol buildings looked the same. Utah and Denver's buildings look very much like the classic dome-and-wings style, but some are very unique!
Thoughts about Raleigh so Far?
The city has a lot going on downtown with museums, shoppings, and restaurants. We unfortunately didn't have time to check out all these places, but I would have loved to stop in a museum. The North Carolina Museum of History was right by the state capitol and looked really interesting - I would have wanted to go there. The city is clean, not to much traffic and it seems like everyone owns a dog down here. So. Many. Dogs. That's my kind of city!
Commentary by Z: My favorite thing is how many well-kept public parks they have. We've driven past and also walked through several, and they're all so nice! There's also hiking trails everywhere, which we love. Could use a little more of that in Utah!
There was a point right before this trip that Zack and I played with the idea of moving to Myrtle Beach. Both of us had never been but we heard it was a popular vacation spot and the thought of being near a beach was a appealing...so it was on our radar - but let me just say that prior to driving here, we had never even seen pictures of the place. Just hearsay of how great it is.

When we arrived I was a little surprised to see how touristy it was. It almost had an old Vegas feel. You know, the themed big resorts along the strip. Nooot what I was expecting. You could tell that maybe in the 80-90s it was this incredible place to get away but now things seem a little run down.

The beaches were beautiful though I will say! White sand and stretching for miles! Basically what it comes down to is it can in fact be a fun place to vacation - especially as a college student because you can rent a room for pretty cheap and then party on the beach - but this is not the place Zack and I would want to buy a home and settle down...but that's why we are doing this trip right?
The boardwalk was fun though and had the SkyWheel (the 5th largest ferris wheel in the US - thrilling huh??). Actually, a little not so secret of mine is that I hate Ferris Wheels. And why is it that every time I get on one, it stops at the very top! THE. VERY. TOP. Then you have to wait like 5 min as they board people...oh I hate it..but I do it anyway because I don't want to miss out on experiences. Did you ever see the movie "Mighty Joe Young"? I LOVED that movie but it also scarred me for life when the ferris wheel tipped over (spoiler alert)...now I always feel like mine will tip over too but I wont have a giant gorilla to save me...
Commentary by Z: I'm not too hot with heights either, especially when I can see these thin metal supports holding up the tiny box I'm in. So why did we do this again? I will say that with every revolution of the wheel I got more comfortable, but of course as soon as I can really relax then the ride is over.
We found a candy store. Zack found his true love
For dinner we went to River City Cafe. If you want a burger, this place has more burger options than pretty much any other place. I just stared at the menu for several minutes not even sure where to begin. The walls of the cafe were covered in old license plates which was kinda fun. We tried to find a Utah plate but for the life of us could not find one. If anyone goes there..please find it for us. I need to know were it is.
Commentary by Z: There were some super interesting choices, like burgers with cheetos on it, or a "biscuit" of fried mac'n'cheese, or even a smores burger with chocolate and marshmallow on top. The most intense was the "kitchen sink" one... picture below
This was legit on the menu...uh what? How does one even go about eating something like that??
We enjoyed our time in Myrtle Beach, but it's definitely not the place we're choosing to settle down. On to the next one!
Today we decided to use our friend's bikes to tour Charleston! They had a bike for each of us  and a truck to carry them so we loaded everything up and headed into the city! Charleston - as I later found out - is a great city to bike! It's one of those little big cities and because there is so much to see, it can be hard to walk it or drive and find parking! We first headed to Waterfront Park to eat our packed lunch. The bike ride took us through the historic streets of Charleston - through shopping, restaurants, cobble stone roads, and quiet neighborhoods. The streets were a little busy but the roads had plenty of room for us bikers to ride along side the cars which was nice because the sidewalks were a lot busier with pedestrians. That would have been a pain to share..I would have crashed into someone for sure! Within half an hour of riding we make it to the park and it was so pretty! The park sits along the river that empties into the ocean where Fort Sumter can be seen in the distance. The park had fountains, a nice grass lawn, and a boardwalk with bench swings (CUTE!). It was the perfect place to enjoy our lunch and feel the ocean breeze. I also might mention that it was in the mid 70s and sunny...really the perfect day!
Commentary by Z: I think my favorite thing about the city is that because of their building height rule (that was recently repealed) they never built skyscrapers and attracted big businesses downtown. This left all the room for the charming houses and shops, which is far more enjoyable of a downtown to be in.
I could have stayed at the park for the rest of the afternoon but we needed to keep going if we were going to see the rest of the city. If you are ever in Charleston, check it out because it's gorgeous!!
We then headed to The Battery - a seawall that was once used during the Civil War as an artillery defense (kinda crazy to think of this place as a defense for war. It's so quiet and peaceful). Now a pretty sidewalk overlooks the water and has massive mansions. It was just row after row of these gorgeous homes with white columns, pillars, tall windows, shutters, wood panelling...basically a dream!! All of them were in amazing condition for their age and just so so dreamy (Have I used the word too much??). I felt like one of the emojis - you know the one with heart eyes :heart_eyes: :heart_eyes: :heart_eyes: I just loved biking through these streets and if they weren't millions of dollars, I would buy one in a second. I guess that's why they are millions of dollars...because everyone would buy them if given the chance.
Our last stop was Market St. to see the City Market. I've been here once before when I was younger but it was fun coming back and having Zack experience it! Have you heard of sweetgrass baskets? Well I had no clue what it was until I came to Charleston. People from the area weave these beautiful baskets made from wheatgrass..I wanted to buy one until I saw that a 10in diameter basket was $150! Who knew they were so expensive?? Maybe I will buy one someday but today was not that day.  
For dinner we went back to Mt. Pleasant and headed to Shem Creek Boardwalk where the boardwalk overlooks the creek and restaurants surround the area. We watched another beautiful sunset (Charleston has gorgeous sunsets!!) and then headed to dinner at Page's Okra Grill - just around the corner from the boardwalk. I got shrimp and grits and it was probably one of the best shrimp and grits I've ever had! I don't get it _that_ often so who am I to say they are the one of the best...buuut they were dang good. For dessert Zack bought a slice of carrot cake (LOVE carrot cake) and this one was incredible! We watched the servers slice it up and Zack couldn't resist.
Commentary by Z: I really didn't want to buy it... but something about seeing them cut up this massive, moist and dense carrot cake in front of me just tore down my resolve. It was amazing.
Overall impressions of Charleston?? I LOVED it! I'm gonna speak for Zack and say WE loved it! I fell in love with this city and want to come back again to explore it some more! I loved the charm, the history, the food and the southern feel. It definitely has my attention and when thinking about where we would want to live on day, this is on my short list.